One issue that many women face with a boyfriend is that he seems to start to not give you the same attention as he used to. To some extent this happens because he is getting used to you or there are some issues in the relationship like problems or commitment that is being avoided. There are a few things that you can do to make sure he gives you a bit more attention.
First of all, keep your time that you do have with him interesting. Having interesting conversations about things you both enjoy. Plan activities that will be fun for both of you to do. It's is acceptable to plan to do things with him even though you are the woman. If you make the time he has with you interesting and fun, he will want to be around more often.
Continue to speak your mind. This doesn't mean to be overly fussy or complain about everything. What it means is that you should continue to be your own person. Men don't want to give attention to someone who always submits to every idea and thought. They want to be with someone who is their own person. If you want attention, let him know.
Be sure to not be too immature. If you are randomly emotional with you or angry all the time, he will avoid you. Time together has to be healthy and pleasant. If you feel alone, don't be desperate with him at all.
Do your best to be respectful. This means that you treat him well and don't call him names. Don't go through his stuff and snoop for information. Be sure to have clear boundaries that you don't cross. This will make him more comfortable with you.
Keep busy if he doesn't seen to want to give you attention. There is no sense is being alone at home hoping he will spend time with you. He will either come around and want to be with you or you will have your life to live. Either way, being busy is best.
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